Depends on What YOU want...

It's been a long time since I didn't post anything. Actually I didn't get any such thing to share my views on...
Or may be it too happened that when I had something to share I either didn't have the medium or plenty of words...

Anyway this post says "It depends on what YOU want."

Yes that's what everything in life relates you to. Related to everything you go through​ and everything that comes to you.

People everywhere are confused.
People think too much.
People care too much.
People have bigger issues to worry about than to think about their own self.
People are too busy bothering what OTHERS want, rather than thinking of what THEY want.

For example:- (Based on recent issue I noticed)...
The board results are out recently.
Subjects were already decided in this gap of 2 months. But now several of them would be thinking to change their minds for several different reasons - may be due to unexpected result, may be due to trouble in understanding what they'd chosen, etc. etc...
And finally they'll end up with frustration doing nothing so well.

You can never force yourself for anything. As I believe...

People think that doing something you don't want to is difficult but possible.
You never do want you don't want to do. It's just that you don't know what you're​ wanting​.

For example you face a breakup and then you think that you don't want to love her yet you're in love with her.
You're either trying to fool yourself by saying so or you're trying to gain some sympathy.
It's not that you don't want to love her, it is that you still want to love her and you want her to love you back too...
Aah...! Too much examples would ruin it up...

So the answers that you have to understand is of the questions that...
Why did I take what I didn't want?
Is it that I wasn't so confident for what I had chosen for myself?
Am I thinking of others more than my choices...?

My life doesn't depend on what others want me to do. Nobody is going to regret on the wrong decision except me.
My life depends only on what I want.
Why ruin life thinking about what is happening around the world...?

"Nothing is great until you take it in your hands and make it great..."

We just have to realise that the most important thing in one's life is he himself...
And nothing's got so much strength to snatch away from you something that you've wanted, waited for and made effort for all your life, from all your heart and hard work...

Yes times get tough a little, but then what is life if you've never faced any risk?
Even the risks and pains seem interesting and worth fighting for if you work for something that YOU want.

Society will gossip for a year, relatives with gossip for a months, mates will gossip for a week, family will gossip for a day and they'll forget... But YOU will end up regretting for a lifetime.

That you won't be able to blame anybody else than you...
You'll have a life but not as good as you thought you could live with your dreams.
You'll have a smile but not as true as you'll expect from yourself to see.
You'll have answers to your questions but none of them would satisfy you...

Because everything depends only on what YOU want...